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Illustration for the quote: "If you are jealous of those who do well, do better."Illustration for the quote: "If you are jealous of those who do well, do better."

"If you are jealous of those who do well, do better."

The moral

Jealousy sees another's success as a theft. Emulation sees it as an invitation. The same energy can gnaw or build, depending on whether you turn it against the one who succeeds or toward your own work. Envying a talent takes it from no one; matching then surpassing it is the only response that changes anything.

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#jalousie#emulation#progrès#effort#excellence#comparaison#motivation#dépassement#travail#exemple

About the author

Antoine Claude Gabriel Jobert

Auteur de recueils de pensées et de maximes
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Origin of this quote

Le trésor de pensées (1852)
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My perspective on this quote

José DA COSTA

For a long time I thought comparison was poison, until I understood it only is in one direction. Facing someone better than me, I get to choose between two reactions that spend exactly the same energy: to belittle them in my head, or to use them as proof that the bar can rise. The first drains me and moves me nowhere; the second gives me a direction. This line from Jobert turns on a tiny pivot: do not try to bring down the one who does well, try to do better than you did yesterday. When a peer ships work I wish I had signed, my first reflex is still sometimes bitterness, but I force myself to flip it: what did they grasp that I missed? What can I learn from them rather than resent? Jealousy, taken the other way around, becomes an excellent teacher. It shows me exactly where I want to grow, and all that is left is to get to work.